Saturday, March 3, 2007

The Fastest Way to Get a Woman to Like You

Let's be honest here...

In your life, there are probably moments where you really like a girl, but you're not sure what you should say to get her to like you.

Just being in her presence makes you sweaty and nervous but you're afraid of saying or doing the wrong thing. You know saying or doing the wrong thing could have disastrous results!

So how can you get her to like you without make an idiot of yourself?

Fortunately this is a common scenario for many guys!

In fact, I often get emails from my readers who ask about the fastest way to get a girl to like them. My response is simple...

Build rapport!

What exactly is rapport and how can it help you?

In essence, rapport is a mutual understanding and connection between two people. You can have rapport with friends and family members, but in the dating sense it's a lot different.

With a girl you like, rapport can take an entirely different form.

When you're talking to a woman, rapport is when a bit of chemistry (romantic & sexual feelings) is created. Commonly you'll discover you've built rapport when you "hit it off" with a woman.

Now instead of trying to MAKE a woman like you, building rapport should be your primary concern.

Fortunately creating rapport with a woman isn't that hard to accomplish. Here are few simple steps that can help you accomplish it:

Step #1- Be in a positive state

First you should make sure you're displaying positive emotions and attitudes when you're around women. By displaying a positive vibe, you'll discover that women will find you very interesting and attractive.

Step #2- Be energetic and full of life
Women are attracted to guys who are energetic and full of life. This means when you're around women, you have to be the fun person who is always having fun and smiling.

Also to be an energetic person you must get rid of any negative feelings or emotions that'll hinder rapport. Focus on only displaying positive things.

Step #3- Be confident

Confident is another characteristic that women absolutely love. So when you're talking to her and building rapport, make sure to display only a confident and fun-loving personality.

But if you're not a confident person, try either faking it or really working hard to find the root causes of your lack of confidence.

Step #4- Don't worry about her liking you

The final way to build rapport is to remove all worries about the outcome of your conversation with a girl. Just remember that there will be a lot of times where some women won't be interested in you. But if you know that it's not the end of the world, then you'll learn to enjoy conversations and not focus on getting a woman to like you.

When you learn to display the "I'm a confident, fun guy who doesn't care what women think" attitude, you'll be on your way to building rapport with every woman you encounter. Once this happens, you'll be able to get almost any woman to like you!

About the Author

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