Friday, February 16, 2007

How To Win Back Your Love

How To Win Back Your Love
By Natalie Arton

Life doesn’t always unfold the way we have planned. Sometimes we make mistake by breaking up with the person that we truly and deeply love. If this is your case, don’t give up, because your situation is not hopeless.

Of course, there is no 100% guarantee in any relationship, but you will find the most important information on how to win back your love in this article.

Most people, when trying to win back the affection of their ex’s, are actually doing everything to push them further away. I want you to realize one thing – you can never force another person to love you, if he/she doesn’t want that. The harder you will push, the higher will be the resistance.

This is what you absolutely must not do if you want to get back with the person that you love.

1. Under no circumstances you should use money, kids, threats, and jealousy to manipulate your ex into loving you. It just doesn’t work that way!

2. Never lose self-respect or start acting needy. Do not show the person that you want to win back how miserable or depressed you are without him/her. Your emotions provoke certain actions. By clinging to the other person like your live depends on him/her, you will evoke no feelings, except for a pity. I know, that can be hard to control your emotions and act like you are all right, especially in the beginning, but you have to be strong. Think of the qualities that attracted your ex and made him/her fall in love with you? You need to become that unique and interesting person again.

3. Do not bug a person that you want to get back with. By “bugging” I mean, calling him/her five times a day, constantly telling about your love, “accidentally” bumping to him/her in the grocery store, e.c. Any person needs some space to sort out his/her feeling. You have to respect that!

And the final, but most important tip - if you did get back with the person that you love, don’t take him/her for granted. Cherish and nurture that great gift of love that has been generously given to you.

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