Tuesday, February 27, 2007

4 Sizzling Ways to Be the Charming Guy She Wants

There is a secret to attracting women!

If you're like me, then you've probably heard a lot about the different techniques for attracting women. The most famous of them is called 'cocky/funny'.

Now I personally think cocky/funny is an incredible to build attraction when you initially meet a woman, but relying just on this technique can get you in a lot of trouble.

Let me explain...

The idea behind cocky-funny is to tease a woman while talking to her and act in a slightly arrogant manner. The problem is many guys read about cocky/funny and think all they have to do is act like a jerk then women will instantly fall in love with them.

Unfortunately this technique rarely works!

While cocky/funny is a great way to add spice to a conversation, it shouldn't be your only tool to attracting a woman. . In fact, many women are turned off by guys who only use cocky/funny techniques.

So how can you attract women without relying solely on cocky/funny?

Well it's simple! All you to do is to learn how to be charming.

If you've watched the men who are successful with women, you've probably noticed that they all have one thing in common. They all know how to be charming.
While it's always important to be confident, you have to learn how to speak to a woman and make her attracted to you.

Here are a few ways you can become charming to a woman during a conversation:

1) Be pleasant company-

One of the best ways to be charming is to be a fun person around women. If you're a source of fun and excitement to a woman, then you're on your way to being charming.

In essence you have to tell interesting stories, bring her on exciting adventures and be a funny person to her. So even if you're teasing her or being cocky/funny, you're still a source of excitement in her life.

2) You smile and have body language-

A charming guy always has a warm and inviting personality. In order to be like this, you have to know how to become the suave guy who attracts women. While I don't have enough space to list all the ways to become charming, let me give a quick rule for behaving in a charming manner:

All you have to do is remember to smile during your conversation and be 'open' with your body language.

3) Have interesting conversations instead of routines-

One huge mistake guys make is to use memorized routines on women. While it's important to use stories and other attraction building techniques, you should never use the same routine with every woman you meet.

Instead of reenacting a boring routine, you should ask her questions which spark curiosity and make you unique. The charming guys are the ones can make instant connections to women and make them enjoy themselves during the conversation.

4) You treat her well-

While I love using the cocky/funny technique I know it's useful up to a point. If she's having fun and you're enjoying the playful interaction, then you know it's working. But even if you're having success, you should remember a charming man knows the importance of always treating a woman well.

In other words, you should always treat women with respect.

This means you act in an honest manner and don't deal in lies. While you might want to have sex and play around with women, you have to remember to behave in a manner where you're not using and taking advantage of them.

Only guys with low self-esteem enjoy hurting women.

If you want to succeed with women and move beyond cocky/funny, you have to learn how to be charming.

By following the previous four tips, you'll be on your way to becoming the charming man all women love!

About the Author

Want to learn more ways to become the kind of man that ALL women desire? If so, take a look at Scott Patterson's free ebook: Seduction Secrets...Revealed!, where he teaches a step-by-step system for approaching and attracting beautiful women.

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