Monday, October 8, 2007

More Passion and Romance - How To Get It

Your wife has to feel loved, adored and appreciated by you before she will risk feeling sexually vulnerable and allow herself to open up. She needs to feel secure in your relationship and your love for her. Romance is the fastest, shortest, and quickest way to more fun, spontaneity, passion, and intimacy in your relationship, and not to mention making her fall head over heels for you all over again!

Remember how you treated your wife when she was just your girlfriend? She can probably look back on your courtship with fond memories of you being filled with desire for each other, and where romance was an integral part of your relationship. Many times after couples get married and get settled into their routines they let romance take a back seat to life. They get caught in the trap of thinking that they’re just too busy and it would take too much work to keep the marriage new and exciting. Romance is about keeping your courtship alive long after the wedding day.

Don’t make the mistake that most husbands share of associating romance with sex. Romance is always about love, but only sometimes about sex. A lot of men consider “sex on demand” as being the main ingredient of romance. On the other hand, women typically list things such as being made to feel special, uninterrupted time together, and non-sexual affection as romance. In March 2007, Men’s Health magazine asked 1000 women to rate nonsexual tactics that would put her in the “mood”. The highest rated answers were the simple things:

  • We laugh together, watching a T.V. show or move.

  • He cooks dinner and cleans up.

  • He surprises me with a sentimental gift.

  • He unexpectedly draws me a bath.

Being romantic does not have to be difficult or costly. It’s all about tuning into your wife and listening to what she would enjoy.

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